i made a player fall in love with me
Your feelings are important, and getting on with your life is critical. LOL. Hi just 15 months ago I found this site and was recovering from a bad relationship with a guy who was a player/bad boy type. My heart breaks for you. We actually meet cause we work in the same building but different departments. I thank God this thing never went beyond a few kisses. Most of the women I know who fell for "players" tended to deceive themselves rather than be deceived. RecoverToday (author) from United States on April 25, 2010: Kaie Arwen: Thank you for a good observation. He would switch between seemingly nice, to seeming put out. A mixture of nostalgia, melancholy and confusion. 4 years ago. I have read tons on narcissist, Psychopathy, and sociopathy. If one uses caution in the situation and stop to think first, much anguish could be avoided. Talking it out with an encouraging person can be very healing. There we were butt to butt, heads on pillow, and lights out as he dropped those words on me. And yes, I am in therapy. Bonus and ad-free content available with Stitcher Premium. This man is even living with his girlfriend of 3 years, and so very convincing that he is leaving her. Just so confusing to me as this has shattered how I will ever trust again. New comments cannot be posted and votes cannot be cast. I’m so embarrassed and hurt, I feel like maybe I shouldn’t have acted that way but he lead me on and I was just so sad. players come in all shapes, ages and sizes. She said she didn't feel the same way and I took that hard, I ceased contact with her and went to America for a bit on a school trip. Part of me hates him for causing me such anguish, the other part just wishes he'd see what a fantastic person I am and he's a fool to 'play' me. I felt like she was keeping me on as an attention seeker, someone she could fall back on. How rude and inconsiderate. Yes, it's hurtful, but there is life afterwards. I still love him and I don’t know how to move on. Always has been attracted to old men but only had 2 partners, including my ex-husband. when someone makes promises, just smile and nod. My problem is, I'm am trying not to let my past ruin what could be a good thing in the present with someone else. I speak from experience as a recovering tender hearted soul who got stepped on by a player and is still recovering more than a year after getting trampled on. Thanks for reading and glad to inform you. He seemed like a nice gentleman and to be honest I got really interested. You are so right in you description that men who tend to be players are nothing more than arrogant! He never contacted me to tell me he wasn't going to make it, and he never showed up. He then handled me his phone, asked for my number. He or she is in a bad place, maybe depressed, maybe maybe and maybe. I told him not to worry, it was just a phase, I'd get over it, but he was adamant we 'talk'. i knew she was a player, but i told myself, it's okay, moments with her was good enough. We had 3 months of sporadic dates (he lived 3hr away), and he had plenty of time to drop those words on me before. All that urgency is caught up in a wave. then told me “he didn’t” but i was friends with the people. It is very hard to get under the skin of a Leo and find a way to his heart. relationship would have went on as far as forever.im stronger now an moving on,becuz i worthy of all i put into a relationship.as Alicia keys would sing,,im moving on..know i am know,i deserve the happiness i never had, thx for so much ,i feel no more hurt an pain,only strength to. writing helps. I saw the assclown again after my last entry, so that date was Dec. 8th. Like entries before i knew this guy is not for me. I texted him and told him how I felt when he did that, and I told him not to play girls in the future and all that. donotfear: I am sorry you were manipulated in this way. As of today I am doing very well and met a great guy! Best to stay away from someone like that, I would say. Hang out with friends more. This is good advise for single folks. His betrayal and lies made me learn to hate, When he punched his teammate in the face at practice, I knew I loved DJ Mbenga. we flirted ALOT we never got like freaky but i liked what we had and i told him i liked him and i would like to be more then friends and he said "me too" then someone added me off of search. Or should I say I let them hurt my psyche. I'm considering weiting a book out of this story because despite all, the 10th of July was the loveliest encounter I experienced with a stranger falling out of the blue. She always talked about herself and her life, and never seemed interested about mine. . but i was wrong, as long we like that person, we have already lost. But I was just too happy to speak with someone. I'm bookmarking so I can reread when I need to and link to some of the resources.


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